It has been quite a while since I last wrote a blog, and since now I am on a 2-month semester break, might as well take this opportunity to pen and continue to recall what happened over this second semester of the first year of my Pharmacy degree course. This semester, though feels & seems short, but a lot of things happened. It feels like the turn of the tide… Why? What is the reason? Maybe this is growing up! Getting new lecturers, meeting new people, making new friends, assigned to new and tougher subjects and projects, and most important and valuable of all, gaining new experiences (though I gained weight also L…)…
Where shall I start… hmm… well, maybe I should start with the tale of 2 of my closest friends, H & G… I’m terribly sorry but I could not name them… I have known H & G for 14 years & 8 years respectively though I have been close to them only about 5 or 6 years ago… Anyway, both of them seemed like they were meant to be together and they have been the ideal couple of some of my circle of friends (namely C & L)... Who would have thought that their relationship would come to an end? Many have guessed and talked about this since the very beginning… but none dared to make any conclusion…
In my opinion, I have been with them through STPM, so I might see, understand, and know more than C & L who were not doing STPM together with us. C & L do not seem to know or aware what is going on… I thought they know well what is going on… Both C & L knows that H is being extremely childish but they are not aware of his attitude of protective & overprotective… They were not aware of what actually happened between H & G... Neither am I… until recently... but it is too late… G has already asked for a break up… G had told me many things over the semester and I was kind of shocked to learn such things… C & L were shocked too to have heard how H treated G…
According to H, H said that G misunderstood H, but according to G, G had told and gave H many hints regarding his attitude of childishness and selfishness, but H was not sensitive enough… but from our experiences (C, L & I), H has been quite childish and his thinking is a bit of the old-China-man conservative thinking… C have warned H after G complained to C about H’s attitudes and actions last December but H doesn’t really change much… H did change, but not much and not long either… I, being the geographically closest person to G among them all, have visited G many times through out the semester and talked much to her… I would have warned H but G does not allow as G wants to prevent quarrels… I did discuss with C about this but in the end, we did not warn H as the situation seemed not right at that time… C & I have asked G to allow a chance for H… Even L, being the last person to be aware of what is going on, asked G to give H a chance but to no avail… Nothing can change G’s decision now… now, H doesn’t want to give up on the relationship… but H’s actions of trying to woo G back would only result in the anger of G…
The full tale can never be told … Several things are better left unknown… As H’s good friends, we do not wish to give H false hopes… but if we were to tell him straight away, with a mind equivalent to a young child, he would have regard us as his enemies… What is there we could do? We have done all we could… Now it depends on how H takes things and how H handles this situation… So passes the tale of H & G…
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